SHRIVER, Mildred N. (nee Nichols), beloved wife of the late  Lawrence E. Shriver.  Loving mother of Kenneth L. (Sandra)   Shriver and Mary Jane (Gary) Steimle.  Also survived by   seven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.  On Sunday,  August 31, 1997 at 84 years of age.  Visitation B.J. Meyer   Sons (Overlook) Funeral Home, 4841 Glenway Ave. (next to St.  Teresa Church) Friday, 9:00 A.M. to 10:00 A.M., followed by   Mass of Christian Burial St. Teresa of Avila Church at 10:30 A.M.  Memorials may be made to American Heart Association, 2936 Vernon   Place, Cincinnati, OH  45219.